There is a blessing that’s coming upon a marriage.
What women want and what men want.
The lack of money is the root to much sadness in families today. Regardless there is a lot you can do in your situation.
A man’s character is tested mostly in the home and not the marketplace. It’s all connected.
Matthew 18:19 If two agree on touching it shall happen.
1 Peter 3:7 live with wives in knowledge, giving honor and being heirs together of the grace of life so your prayers will not be hindered.
Men be knowlegable on how to deal with women. If you aren’t accurate your prayers will be hindered. Women are complicated. Not made like a man. Women were God’s second thought. Man from dust but woman from man’s rib. In Christianity marriage has a point of reference As Christ loved the church. Wives, submit as the church is submitted to Christ.
Marriage is a death sentence for a man. Say sorry when she is wrong.
What do women want? 1. They want husbands to have more knowledge on how to deal with me. Give your husband a mentor. If husband can submit to a mentor your are safe. 2. They want honor. Value. Via words. Words of respect and honor. Tell her she is beautiful, can’t do without her, love her. She is not weak but wants to be treated differently. They are equal until marriage. Then the husband is the head and wife is not the head. Prayers hindered if you don’t. God blessed them, not him and her. Harmony in the family. Two are better than one.
Ecclesiasities man and women marry for a good reward for their labor. One main reason for marriage is that reward from being together.
Men want more from a marriage than women. 1 Peter 3;1 wife that subjects, work together. The shepard’s wife can bring down a church. Clear skin reflection of peace in the heart. They want a woman in subjection so that if the husband doesn’t follow the word, the wife’s manner of living will be won back. Woman’s behavior wins the man, not the words. The wife’s lifestyle convicts the man to be more righteous. When you are in school you might be attracted to a certain woman. After marriage attraction is different. After marriage, her conversation becomes attraction as well.
Your role as a man is to mold the woman to be a spiritual leader in the home. Not so focused on external appearances and dressing. At home dress code is not a big deal. Attraction is in the soul. She needs to have an attractive soul.
1 Peter 3:4 The woman’s meek and quiet spirit is what men want. His mom was a loud talker. Melanie was at first a loud talker. Never use the condesending tone on the husband. Don’t compete with your man cause it will cause fight. Be slightly below and he will protect you. Husband means owner. He owns the wife. Caution for large families. Not the Biblical premise for how family is done. Leave your home and cling to spouse.