Why are you getting married. Expected them to say they love each other.
1. We don't know why we are getting married.
2. You need an external mission.
Why is it so difficult? The only game where both can win or both can lose.
Marriage was God's design and purpose.
1 Cor 7:1 Good not to touch a woman. But each man should have his own wife.
When marriage fails it gets in the bloodline. It is a pattern breaker.
Some parents have good intention but can put the wrong expectations on them. It's not getting another child but they should be a separate entity.
Gen 2:24 Leave father and mother and be one flesh.
Leaving,cleaving,and becoming one. One flesh means a consumation. Marriage in bed.
When you are both born again it's required, but your marriage needs to also be born again as a unit. Astologer went mad because Lunar Moon is in line with lunatic.
One example had an astorloger determine if it was OK. That needed to be broken. Need to curse the moon and stars over them.
Gen 1;1 first heaven and earth. Prior to moon and stars. But there was time in the beginning. Not controlled by the stars.
Gen 1;14 Firmament to give light to the earth. He made the Sun and the Moon. Day 4.
After day 4 you see creatures coming out of the water. On day 3 God created creatures out of the earth. On day 5 creatures in the sea.
If you can exercise moderatiely and don't drink water you can lose weight.
The body is made up of earth and water and stardust. People are ignorant about star dust. When stars exploded the residue fell on earth. John 1;13 When you are born again you are not born of the flesh. So that prior stuff doesn't affect you.
Common goal in Christ makes you ONE.
United:
Union:
Oneness:
Three different levels. When union comes in you both think the same things. Same thoughts and approach. Oneness is when it is no longer two people.
Gen 5;1 God created man. generations. Male and female he created them. He called THEM one name Adam. God didn't call her Eve, but Adam did. A woman's identity comes from the husband. If the woman is insecure, it's the mans fault. It's a blessing to be a woman.
God brought animals prior to a woman. He couldn't use an amimal for a helper.
THen with no help mate in animal kingdom he put man to sleep and pulled out the woman. Man performs best when at rest. You are just the female side of Adam. Difficult when the woman tries to become her own entity.
It's more vital that a woman marries the right man than the other way around. Because it becomes her identity.
First be in love. Love your wife. Show it.
Romans 7; 1 cor 7’; Matt 19